Tuesday, November 03, 2009
Private Investigators Buyer Beware
Private Investigators are like contractors, do your homework. Some of them have no business experience or integrity. Selecting a professional and better choice can be determined by years in business. That is one factor that helps to sort out the new-comers and inexperienced.
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Proposed law would treat cheating spouses equally
The ways of other nations might lead America back to a married nation. Read this story:
http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/inquirerheadlines/nation/view/20091020-231118/Proposed-law-would-treat-cheating-spouses-equally#
By Leila Salaverria
Philippine Daily Inquirer
First Posted 06:34:00 10/20/2009
Filed Under: Legislation, Laws, Crime and Law and Justice, Gender Issues, Justice & Rights
MANILA, Philippines — The House committee on the revision of laws has recommended the passage of a bill that seeks to replace the crimes of adultery (for women) and concubinage (for men) with the crime of marital infidelity that would apply equally to both sexes.
The bill would also prohibit a spouse from filing a criminal complaint for infidelity if the complainant had likewise been unfaithful.
Under present law, adultery is not committed by the husband. The Revised Penal Code states that “adultery is committed by any married woman who shall have sexual intercourse with a man not her husband.” She faces imprisonment of 2 to 4 years.
On the other hand, the Revised Penal Code defines concubinage as “any husband who shall keep a mistress in the conjugal dwelling, or shall have sexual intercourse, under scandalous circumstances, with a woman who is not his wife, or shall cohabit with her in any other place...” He faces imprisonment of 6 months to 6 years.
When it comes to marital infidelity, the existing law seems biased against the woman. If the wife commits one act of adultery, she and her lover can be criminally charged.
However, the husband who commits numerous acts of marital infidelity cannot be sued by his wife for adultery. The philandering husband must be sued for concubinage.
Concubinage is also harder to prove, according to the committee, chaired by Isabela Rep. Giorgidi Aggabao.
In the proposed bill, marital infidelity is committed by any married person who has sexual intercourse with anyone other than his or her spouse. Any person who has sexual intercourse with a married person will also be held liable.
“The present law governing the infidelity of a married person is one of the laws that underlines the inequality of the sexes before the law... To equalize the rights of men and women before the law, this bill seeks to punish the infidelity of a married person under the same elements by combining the crime of adultery and concubinage into a single crime applicable similarly to both men and women,” the bill states.
The proposed legislation, a consolidation of similar bills filed by Representatives Liza Maza, Luzviminda Ilagan, Joel Villanueva, Cinchona Cruz-Gonzales and Narciso Santiago III, prescribes a punishment of 6 months to 4 years imprisonment.
It also proposes that the offended party will not be able to file criminal cases if he or she likewise committed marital infidelity, or if he or she abandoned the unfaithful spouse without just cause for more than one year, or if he or she does not include both guilty parties in the complaint.
The bill also proposes that Muslims and indigenous people be held liable for marital infidelity regardless of their faith and traditions.
Government officials and personnel who would be found guilty of marital infidelity will be slapped with a harsher penalty of 6 to 8 years imprisonment.
http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/inquirerheadlines/nation/view/20091020-231118/Proposed-law-would-treat-cheating-spouses-equally#
By Leila Salaverria
Philippine Daily Inquirer
First Posted 06:34:00 10/20/2009
Filed Under: Legislation, Laws, Crime and Law and Justice, Gender Issues, Justice & Rights
MANILA, Philippines — The House committee on the revision of laws has recommended the passage of a bill that seeks to replace the crimes of adultery (for women) and concubinage (for men) with the crime of marital infidelity that would apply equally to both sexes.
The bill would also prohibit a spouse from filing a criminal complaint for infidelity if the complainant had likewise been unfaithful.
Under present law, adultery is not committed by the husband. The Revised Penal Code states that “adultery is committed by any married woman who shall have sexual intercourse with a man not her husband.” She faces imprisonment of 2 to 4 years.
On the other hand, the Revised Penal Code defines concubinage as “any husband who shall keep a mistress in the conjugal dwelling, or shall have sexual intercourse, under scandalous circumstances, with a woman who is not his wife, or shall cohabit with her in any other place...” He faces imprisonment of 6 months to 6 years.
When it comes to marital infidelity, the existing law seems biased against the woman. If the wife commits one act of adultery, she and her lover can be criminally charged.
However, the husband who commits numerous acts of marital infidelity cannot be sued by his wife for adultery. The philandering husband must be sued for concubinage.
Concubinage is also harder to prove, according to the committee, chaired by Isabela Rep. Giorgidi Aggabao.
In the proposed bill, marital infidelity is committed by any married person who has sexual intercourse with anyone other than his or her spouse. Any person who has sexual intercourse with a married person will also be held liable.
“The present law governing the infidelity of a married person is one of the laws that underlines the inequality of the sexes before the law... To equalize the rights of men and women before the law, this bill seeks to punish the infidelity of a married person under the same elements by combining the crime of adultery and concubinage into a single crime applicable similarly to both men and women,” the bill states.
The proposed legislation, a consolidation of similar bills filed by Representatives Liza Maza, Luzviminda Ilagan, Joel Villanueva, Cinchona Cruz-Gonzales and Narciso Santiago III, prescribes a punishment of 6 months to 4 years imprisonment.
It also proposes that the offended party will not be able to file criminal cases if he or she likewise committed marital infidelity, or if he or she abandoned the unfaithful spouse without just cause for more than one year, or if he or she does not include both guilty parties in the complaint.
The bill also proposes that Muslims and indigenous people be held liable for marital infidelity regardless of their faith and traditions.
Government officials and personnel who would be found guilty of marital infidelity will be slapped with a harsher penalty of 6 to 8 years imprisonment.
Tuesday, September 01, 2009
The Ugly Truth about divorce
Ok. Here's an ugly truth: Not every infidelity story ends happily ever after for the marriage.
Some marriages are beyond repair.
Some who cheat and betray never turn from their path of obsession with their own personal needs or covert inadequacies and never become able to enter intimately into a relationship of investment.
Sad, but true.
Let me be a little more specific.
Some who engage in an "I Don't Want to Say No" affair never acknowledge their narcissism.
Some who engage in the "I Can't Say No" affair never confront their compulsions and addictions and their lives spiral toward self-delusion and destruction.
Some who engage in "I Fell Out of Love... and just love being in love" flit from one romantic high to another. (However, this is the exception rather than the rule. These people often move beyond their attempts at adolescent reconstruction and enter into healthy relationships.)
Some who engage in "I Want to Get Back at Him/Her" never purge their lives of their rage.
Some who engage in "I Want to Be Close to Someone...but can't stand intimacy" continue to live lives of stark emotional deprivation and inner unacknowledged turmoil.
You get the idea.
So, I want you to be prepared if worse comes to worse.
I know, I know. This may difficult to even consider, but please, give it some thought - especially if you are in an abusive relationship.
I've found a powerful and practical resource that can guide you in process of preparing to leave the destructive relationship. (And, it always pays to be prepared.)
(This resource is written specifically for women. But, men, don't write it off. If you are in an abusive relationship and it may end, this is for YOU as well.)
Here are some important questions for you to consider:
Are you prepared for the unstoppable chain of events that will follow the break up of your marriage?
Do you have money on hand to hire a lawyer to represent you, to protect and keep you and your children safe?
How are you going to pay the bills during the divorce process?
Are you making enough money to handle the house payments alone if your husband/wife leaves you?
Do you have any idea how you will support yourself (and your children) without any financial assistance?
If you answered "No" to any of these questions you NEED access to the powerful information in a practical new resource I just found...
I recently ran across a tremendous resource for helping you prepare for and protect yourself during a divorce.
This eye-opening book called, "Divorce Secrets: What Every Woman Should Know", was written by Cathi Adams. Cathi shares her powerful step-by-step plan that she used to successfully escape her unhappy marriage (while keeping her son, house AND not having to reduce her lifestyle.)
Take a look at just a handful of the raving reviews:
An Abundance of Good Solid Financial Information."Although I am not even married I am interested in financial information so I ordered your book. I found it extremely interesting and informative. I think you should offer it to everyone - not just woman thinking of divorce.
You have an abundance of good, solid financial information. Thank you for helping me become more financially savvy!"
- Pat,New York, NY---
I Learned So Much!"I loved your book. I read it from start to finish in one sitting. I could not put it down! It was very interesting, inspirational, and positive. I learned so much! Thank you."
- Tiffany,Arizona---
I Hope My Wife Never Reads It!"Very informative! I read your book based on curiosity. I was impressed. Good job! You should make this available for men. ( I hope my wife never reads it!)"
- Jim,Florida---
You Are Doing A Wonderful Service For Women!"Cathi, You are doing a wonderful service for women! Great book! I really enjoyed it."
- Barbara,New York---
I Laughed Out Loud...Now I Know What I Have To Do."Great information. I like the way you bring in humor to this terrible subject. I laughed out loud at certain parts. I know what I have to do now. Thanks."
- Phyliss,Florida---
Go ahead and click here to get the full story:
http://sevendaypi.c4ddefense.hop.clickbank.net
All the best,
Bill
P.S. Even if you're not interested in getting this resource - you should still check out the web site to read Cathi's compelling story.
Here's that link again:
http://sevendaypi.c4ddefense.hop.clickbank.net
Some marriages are beyond repair.
Some who cheat and betray never turn from their path of obsession with their own personal needs or covert inadequacies and never become able to enter intimately into a relationship of investment.
Sad, but true.
Let me be a little more specific.
Some who engage in an "I Don't Want to Say No" affair never acknowledge their narcissism.
Some who engage in the "I Can't Say No" affair never confront their compulsions and addictions and their lives spiral toward self-delusion and destruction.
Some who engage in "I Fell Out of Love... and just love being in love" flit from one romantic high to another. (However, this is the exception rather than the rule. These people often move beyond their attempts at adolescent reconstruction and enter into healthy relationships.)
Some who engage in "I Want to Get Back at Him/Her" never purge their lives of their rage.
Some who engage in "I Want to Be Close to Someone...but can't stand intimacy" continue to live lives of stark emotional deprivation and inner unacknowledged turmoil.
You get the idea.
So, I want you to be prepared if worse comes to worse.
I know, I know. This may difficult to even consider, but please, give it some thought - especially if you are in an abusive relationship.
I've found a powerful and practical resource that can guide you in process of preparing to leave the destructive relationship. (And, it always pays to be prepared.)
(This resource is written specifically for women. But, men, don't write it off. If you are in an abusive relationship and it may end, this is for YOU as well.)
Here are some important questions for you to consider:
Are you prepared for the unstoppable chain of events that will follow the break up of your marriage?
Do you have money on hand to hire a lawyer to represent you, to protect and keep you and your children safe?
How are you going to pay the bills during the divorce process?
Are you making enough money to handle the house payments alone if your husband/wife leaves you?
Do you have any idea how you will support yourself (and your children) without any financial assistance?
If you answered "No" to any of these questions you NEED access to the powerful information in a practical new resource I just found...
I recently ran across a tremendous resource for helping you prepare for and protect yourself during a divorce.
This eye-opening book called, "Divorce Secrets: What Every Woman Should Know", was written by Cathi Adams. Cathi shares her powerful step-by-step plan that she used to successfully escape her unhappy marriage (while keeping her son, house AND not having to reduce her lifestyle.)
Take a look at just a handful of the raving reviews:
An Abundance of Good Solid Financial Information."Although I am not even married I am interested in financial information so I ordered your book. I found it extremely interesting and informative. I think you should offer it to everyone - not just woman thinking of divorce.
You have an abundance of good, solid financial information. Thank you for helping me become more financially savvy!"
- Pat,New York, NY---
I Learned So Much!"I loved your book. I read it from start to finish in one sitting. I could not put it down! It was very interesting, inspirational, and positive. I learned so much! Thank you."
- Tiffany,Arizona---
I Hope My Wife Never Reads It!"Very informative! I read your book based on curiosity. I was impressed. Good job! You should make this available for men. ( I hope my wife never reads it!)"
- Jim,Florida---
You Are Doing A Wonderful Service For Women!"Cathi, You are doing a wonderful service for women! Great book! I really enjoyed it."
- Barbara,New York---
I Laughed Out Loud...Now I Know What I Have To Do."Great information. I like the way you bring in humor to this terrible subject. I laughed out loud at certain parts. I know what I have to do now. Thanks."
- Phyliss,Florida---
Go ahead and click here to get the full story:
http://sevendaypi.c4ddefense.hop.clickbank.net
All the best,
Bill
P.S. Even if you're not interested in getting this resource - you should still check out the web site to read Cathi's compelling story.
Here's that link again:
http://sevendaypi.c4ddefense.hop.clickbank.net
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
Private Investigations - 101
With school starting back up this fall, students prepared mentally for the challenge. While some focus on new clothes and outward appearances, many look to rekindle relationships. Others begin the grueling practices hoping to gain a spot on the first string. Student’s minds are filled with anticipation, anxiety, expectation, identity and a host of other emotions. It’s a wonderful time of year. Everyone starts with a new slate, a fresh chance to make the grade and excel. The playing field is new each year.
Likewise each day, private investigators field questions from callers whose needs vary. It’s amazing the types of questions posed them. For example, this morning a female asked me for a copy of a cell phone billing statement, “just one month” she said. I asked her if she was on the account, suspecting she was a victim of infidelity, and “no” she replied. Well then, I told her, that would be a felony to pursue this information and she should be aware of it. That call ended just as quickly as it came in.
Others want to know if a “loved one” or “birthparent” can be found and retain the assistance of a private investigator. To which the answer normally depends. While another client wants help with a neighbor who troubles them. He’s a parolee that spends too much time watching them.
Lawyers engage the services of private investigators to prepare a defense and collect evidence to protect their client’s interest. These cases take shape depending upon the nature and scope of action. Those charged criminally must defend themselves and therefore a private investigator is tasked to unearth witnesses, records, documents, evidence that might change the course of a court battle.
Each assignment has an elements including risk, uncertainly and challenge.
For instance, a private investigator conducting surveillance gets confronted by a subject. This overt confrontation will be the subject of a civil case where the behavior will show a propensity toward conflict and aggressive tendency. This twist in the investigation brought about an unexpected consequence - favorable to one side and not the other.
Most people think private investigator sneak around following seedy people.
Unless someone like me reveals the real world and more reliable picture, this myth might continue on without merit.
Insurance companies routinely need field investigators when a claim is submitted. And in a tight financial market, disproving a claim with video evidence that controverts allegations, or facts to help deny a claim is very smart business. Too often, claims are exaggerated for monetary reasons which have been in my experience the case for many decades. Workers compensation claims that offer a “total disability” equates to a life time of paying on that one claim. Most insurance clients have no issue with justifiable claims that deserve to be paid out. It’s those individuals who seek to enjoy an “early retirement” or "free ride" that drives premiums upward.
It is not unusual to be asked to perform a service that is “outside” the realm of normal assignments. People suspect things and are willing to pay for professional help from a private investigator. While some seek an opinion, insights or strategies to overcome a situation, while others want a letter delivered to an “old flame”. Political parties hire private investigators to conduct backgrounds on their opponents.
And of course, assignments can vary by location.
To define the complete picture of private investigations can only be summed up as “interesting and challenging.” More to follow...... Until then I am -
Bill MitchellPrivate Investigator, Author, Speaker and Infidelity Expert
Mitchell Reports Investigations, LLC
2131 Woodruff Road, Ste. 2100-299
Greenville, SC 29607
(864) 756-1828
http://www.mitchellreports.com/
Likewise each day, private investigators field questions from callers whose needs vary. It’s amazing the types of questions posed them. For example, this morning a female asked me for a copy of a cell phone billing statement, “just one month” she said. I asked her if she was on the account, suspecting she was a victim of infidelity, and “no” she replied. Well then, I told her, that would be a felony to pursue this information and she should be aware of it. That call ended just as quickly as it came in.
Others want to know if a “loved one” or “birthparent” can be found and retain the assistance of a private investigator. To which the answer normally depends. While another client wants help with a neighbor who troubles them. He’s a parolee that spends too much time watching them.
Lawyers engage the services of private investigators to prepare a defense and collect evidence to protect their client’s interest. These cases take shape depending upon the nature and scope of action. Those charged criminally must defend themselves and therefore a private investigator is tasked to unearth witnesses, records, documents, evidence that might change the course of a court battle.
Each assignment has an elements including risk, uncertainly and challenge.
For instance, a private investigator conducting surveillance gets confronted by a subject. This overt confrontation will be the subject of a civil case where the behavior will show a propensity toward conflict and aggressive tendency. This twist in the investigation brought about an unexpected consequence - favorable to one side and not the other.
Most people think private investigator sneak around following seedy people.
Unless someone like me reveals the real world and more reliable picture, this myth might continue on without merit.
Insurance companies routinely need field investigators when a claim is submitted. And in a tight financial market, disproving a claim with video evidence that controverts allegations, or facts to help deny a claim is very smart business. Too often, claims are exaggerated for monetary reasons which have been in my experience the case for many decades. Workers compensation claims that offer a “total disability” equates to a life time of paying on that one claim. Most insurance clients have no issue with justifiable claims that deserve to be paid out. It’s those individuals who seek to enjoy an “early retirement” or "free ride" that drives premiums upward.
It is not unusual to be asked to perform a service that is “outside” the realm of normal assignments. People suspect things and are willing to pay for professional help from a private investigator. While some seek an opinion, insights or strategies to overcome a situation, while others want a letter delivered to an “old flame”. Political parties hire private investigators to conduct backgrounds on their opponents.
And of course, assignments can vary by location.
To define the complete picture of private investigations can only be summed up as “interesting and challenging.” More to follow...... Until then I am -
Bill MitchellPrivate Investigator, Author, Speaker and Infidelity Expert
Mitchell Reports Investigations, LLC
2131 Woodruff Road, Ste. 2100-299
Greenville, SC 29607
(864) 756-1828
http://www.mitchellreports.com/
Infidelity Expert? This one is real.
Stop the agony of the affair! Find your strength and courage! Learn how to shake his/her world. Pinpoint the most powerful strategies to stop the affair. Learn exactly what to say and when to say it (according to one of the 7 different types of affairs). Get the highly acclaimed e-book, "Break Free From the Affair."
Both of you are committed (well, mostly) to rebuilding the relationship. Learn how to rebuild trust slowly but surely. Learn how to avoid the "swirl" and eliminate judgments and put downs. Move beyond need-meeting. Go beyond confrontation. Go beyond making amends. Create a relationship appropriate for new intimacy. Get Dr. Huizenga's e-book: Marriage Makeover.
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Be determined to learn as much as you can, to find your strength and courage to use new skills and and develop an outlook that will stop the affair and reshape my life and relationship to what I really want. Download all of Dr. Huizenga's e-books, "Discovery to Recovery," Can your Marriage be Saved?" "What will Happen Next?" "Should I Spy?" "Barriers to a Marriage Makeover," as well as his full articles, Newsletter archive and more. Join the Infidelity Insider now!
Must you talk through your problems? Some think them through. Talking through often leads to new strategies never previously considered. It increases your confidence and self esteem. Talking affirms that you really are OK, helps you move through the affair more quickly and begins the process of designing the life and relationships you truly desire. Contact Dr. Huizenga or Jeryl Swantack to set up coaching sessions that will rebuild YOU and keep you on the right track.
Both of you are committed (well, mostly) to rebuilding the relationship. Learn how to rebuild trust slowly but surely. Learn how to avoid the "swirl" and eliminate judgments and put downs. Move beyond need-meeting. Go beyond confrontation. Go beyond making amends. Create a relationship appropriate for new intimacy. Get Dr. Huizenga's e-book: Marriage Makeover.
Learn how to feel human again. Discover that your pain in NORMAL. Listen to others - perhaps in a situation identical to yours - poignantly express their confusion and pain and then in a few minutes begin to feel their strength and power to face their future, with or without him/her. These 19 Live Coaching Sessions with Dr. Huizenga will be your listening companion. You can take his words with you.
Be determined to learn as much as you can, to find your strength and courage to use new skills and and develop an outlook that will stop the affair and reshape my life and relationship to what I really want. Download all of Dr. Huizenga's e-books, "Discovery to Recovery," Can your Marriage be Saved?" "What will Happen Next?" "Should I Spy?" "Barriers to a Marriage Makeover," as well as his full articles, Newsletter archive and more. Join the Infidelity Insider now!
Must you talk through your problems? Some think them through. Talking through often leads to new strategies never previously considered. It increases your confidence and self esteem. Talking affirms that you really are OK, helps you move through the affair more quickly and begins the process of designing the life and relationships you truly desire. Contact Dr. Huizenga or Jeryl Swantack to set up coaching sessions that will rebuild YOU and keep you on the right track.
Tuesday, August 04, 2009
Infidelity Experts? It's doubtful...
Surfing the web for information is commonplace for many people. Investigators have left their cars and find themselves in front of PC or Mac now-a-days. We are in the "information age." Gone are the yellow and white page directories that used to fill our back office shelves for decades. Those were donated to the local genealogy departments of the county library.
The research trend is built on sources that many of which can be found without leaving the comfort of our homes or offices. Along with this new age are some who found a career "mining" free information, shy of clinical studies or professional surveys to valid findings. The internet has provided a brand of "experts" who largely surface as "self-proclaimed." Hence; opinions, articles and like merely to pay the bills. But does the public at large realize that the information is self-serving. That's my point for writing about it.
Having work as a professional investigator over four decades affords me the opportunity to judge or assess their work. So, my goal is to clarify what appears real or what surfaces as merely self serving sources. I've been taught we should always "CONSIDER THE SOURCE."
We are also in the age of "infidelity" and "cyber crimes." So buyers beware! Alleged “experts” who surf the internet for “free” and “invalidated” information appear to me (in my opinion) as writers with no real experience seeking free “PR”. This disturbs me, especially when it comes to something as serious as a troubled relationship. Are they exploiting? I hope not.
When you suspect infidelity then you must know what to do about it. The worse thing is react out of emotion. Though this is hard to resist, knowledge is power. Learn what you can do for yourself today from Bill Mitchell, Dr. Phil's featured infidelity expert. Turn to the expert millions have sought after, turn to http://www.7daydetective.com/book2.html and get answers others haven't a clue to win in court.
While MANY taut, knowledge from internet research only, few have the field experience investigating infidelity. But now you can, seek out Bill Mitchell's fantastic book titled "The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship." Four decades worth of success in over two thousand cases, Bill has the power to deliver what you need. Not a self proclaimed expert, a real veteran investigator with a track record of success.
The research trend is built on sources that many of which can be found without leaving the comfort of our homes or offices. Along with this new age are some who found a career "mining" free information, shy of clinical studies or professional surveys to valid findings. The internet has provided a brand of "experts" who largely surface as "self-proclaimed." Hence; opinions, articles and like merely to pay the bills. But does the public at large realize that the information is self-serving. That's my point for writing about it.
Having work as a professional investigator over four decades affords me the opportunity to judge or assess their work. So, my goal is to clarify what appears real or what surfaces as merely self serving sources. I've been taught we should always "CONSIDER THE SOURCE."
We are also in the age of "infidelity" and "cyber crimes." So buyers beware! Alleged “experts” who surf the internet for “free” and “invalidated” information appear to me (in my opinion) as writers with no real experience seeking free “PR”. This disturbs me, especially when it comes to something as serious as a troubled relationship. Are they exploiting? I hope not.
When you suspect infidelity then you must know what to do about it. The worse thing is react out of emotion. Though this is hard to resist, knowledge is power. Learn what you can do for yourself today from Bill Mitchell, Dr. Phil's featured infidelity expert. Turn to the expert millions have sought after, turn to http://www.7daydetective.com/book2.html and get answers others haven't a clue to win in court.
While MANY taut, knowledge from internet research only, few have the field experience investigating infidelity. But now you can, seek out Bill Mitchell's fantastic book titled "The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship." Four decades worth of success in over two thousand cases, Bill has the power to deliver what you need. Not a self proclaimed expert, a real veteran investigator with a track record of success.
4 women accused of using Krazy Glue to get even with cheating spouse
Here's an article that demonstrates the highly charged emotions brought about by infidelity. While I reserve my comments or views on this situation, it clearly highlights the fall-out when one is unfaithful. Let me warn the men, there are images of pain associated with the incident.--------------------------------------
August 04, 2009 5:54 AM
The Associated Press
WAUSAU, Wis. (AP) — A married man who planned to rendezvous with one of his handful of lovers at a Wisconsin motel instead found himself bound, blindfolded and assaulted by a group of women out for revenge, according to court documents.
Four women, including his wife, eventually showed up to humiliate the man, who ended up with his penis glued to his stomach to punish him for a lover's quadrangle gone bad, according to the documents filed in Calumet County.
Now it's the women who face punishment, perhaps six years in prison, and at least one said Monday she's embarrassed now.
"I am disturbed. I am upset. I am having a hard time handling life, an emotional wreck," Wendy Sewell, 43, of Kaukauna, said in a telephone interview from her home. "I am ashamed."
Sewell, Therese Ziemann, 48, of Menasha, Michelle Belliveau, 43, of Neenah, and the man's wife are charged with being party to false imprisonment, a felony. Ziemann also is charged with fourth-degree sexual assault.
The women are free on $200 cash bail each. Investigators say all the women but Belliveau were romantically involved with the man.
The Associated Press is not naming the man's wife to protect his identity as an alleged victim of sexual assault.
Online court records didn't list defense attorneys for any of the women Monday.
The women's plot for revenge unfolded last Thursday at the Lakeview Motel about 30 miles (39 kilometers) southwest of Green Bay in the tiny village of Stockbridge near the scenic shores of Lake Winnebago.
Criminal complaints filed Friday allege the man agreed to be bound with "sheer sheets" and blindfolded with a pillowcase for a "rub down" by Ziemann. She instead cut off his underwear with a scissors and summoned the others to the room.
Ziemann struck the man in the face, and used Krazy Glue to attach his penis to his stomach when the other women arrived, according to the complaint. The man told investigators he also was threatened with a gun.
Ziemann told investigators she didn't have a gun but may have told the victim, "Do you know how much I want to shoot you?"
He started screaming and the women rushed off fearful that he could get loose and hurt them but allegedly took his wallet, vehicle and cell phone.
Ziemann told investigators she met the man online through Craigslist, fell in love and paid for a room at the motel for the past two months. She said she gave him about $3,000. Then last Wednesday, she learned from the man's wife that he was married, had other girlfriends and was "using them for money." She expected the money to be repaid, according to the documents.
During Thursday's confrontation with the man, Ziemann told investigators that Sewell asked him, "Which one do you love more?" and the man's wife made a derisive remark about him being scared.
The man got free from the bed by chewing through one of his bindings, went outside and borrowed a telephone from the motel owner to call police.
Ziemann and Belliveau are sisters and Belliveau didn't do anything wrong, Sewell said Monday.
"She was just there for moral support. She wasn't even dating the guy. She stood at the door the whole time and didn't participate or nothing."
Ziemann's husband answered the telephone at their home and declined comment. There was no telephone listing for Belliveau.'
The man had no telephone listing in Fond du Lac.
*** End of Story ***
Monday, August 03, 2009
Sunday, August 02, 2009
Spy Products, Covert Cameras, Spy Gear
Terry Sachetti has left a new comment on your post "Spy Products, Covert Cameras, Spy Gear": This is really a must read for everyone. Bill Mitchell is right on the money and you should certainly contact him. There is no doubt that Spy Equipment and Spy Cams are extremely popular and sales have increased by 141% this year alone. It is truly amazing what great spy toys, spy equipment is out there for all of us to buy and use. But lets face it, spy equipment, spy cams, hidden cameras in all shapes and forms can provide peace of mind and most importantly something we all want the truth.
The absolute best spy cam, hidden camera, Nanny Cam, you can call it what you want depending on what you are using it for, but the point is it is the hottest selling Spy Cam in the country today and that is the SleuthGear Recluse and you can check the video on it on our home page at our site http://www.7daydetective.com/products.html It is very easy to use and the price is perfect for what you are getting. Several of these in your home and you have the perfect home security system or Nanny Cam system to let you know what is going on while you are not there
The absolute best spy cam, hidden camera, Nanny Cam, you can call it what you want depending on what you are using it for, but the point is it is the hottest selling Spy Cam in the country today and that is the SleuthGear Recluse and you can check the video on it on our home page at our site http://www.7daydetective.com/products.html It is very easy to use and the price is perfect for what you are getting. Several of these in your home and you have the perfect home security system or Nanny Cam system to let you know what is going on while you are not there
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
New Product Launching This Week!
Spector Server is designed for IT leadership and administrators who need a comprehensive surveillance tool that provides a detailed record, including screen snapshots, of all server maintenance and session activity. Spector Server offers the most comprehensive suite of recording tools available including screen snapshots which provide administrators with a VISUAL LOG OF ACTIVITY.
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Monday, July 27, 2009
Spy Products, Covert Cameras, Spy Gear
Covert cameras are a great option. Many professional investigator have grasped these tools of the trade and solved many cases. For decades, Mitchell Reports Investigations, LLC agents and investigators have utilitzed the covert camera equipment. Bill Mitchell addresses this issue in his book named above.
In fact, we have modified pursues, clocks, books and the like. We fit a camera into the setting.
What situations work well?
Residential or office spaces tend to provide both power (electricity) and opportunity to discover evidence. Covert camera sizes continue to shrink. These systems can also be used from vehicles for surveillance or in cabins, campers, apartments and other venues.
What equipment do I need?
First consider how you want to record the evidence. Will you be using a covert camera for longer than a few days? For those operations that will last more than a week, the recording device storing evidence must have the ability to store images and video.
We use both analog (tape) or digital recorders and highly recommend digital units in most situations since tapes will run out unless a motion detector is attached. Also, tapes do fail and have other limitations.
Is it legal?
You will fist need to check with an attorney in your state for recording inside your residence. However, in many states the expectation of privacy does not apply in your own home, and more especially your business space.
Can I rent or we have to purchase the equipment?
Both options are available. We recommend renting first in most assignments.
Why? Normally once an investigation is over the gear sits in a closet or is no longer worthwhile keeping. In those circumstances where a longer term of usage may occur, then purchasing covert cameras is a better option for you.
If you would like to discuss your options, call our office today. (866) 785-2423.
Bill Mitchell, LPI
Private Investigator
Mitchell Reports Investigations, LLC
Greenville, SC 29607
http://www.mitchellreports.com/
Best Private Eye in the Business
Press Release
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Mitchell Reports Investigations LLC Receives 2009 Best of Greenville Award
U.S. Commerce Association’s Award Plaque Honors the Achievement
WASHINGTON D.C., June 8, 2009 -- Mitchell Reports Investigations, LLC has been selected for the 2009 Best of Greenville Award in the Detective Agencies category by the U.S. Commerce Association (USCA).
The USCA "Best of Local Business" Award Program recognizes outstanding local businesses throughout the country. Each year, the USCA identifies companies that they believe have achieved exceptional marketing success in their local community and business category. These are local companies that enhance the positive image of small business through service to their customers and community.
Various sources of information were gathered and analyzed to choose the winners in each category. The 2009 USCA Award Program focused on quality, not quantity. Winners are determined based on the information gathered both internally by the USCA and data provided by third parties.
About U.S. Commerce Association (USCA)
U.S. Commerce Association (USCA) is a Washington D.C. based organization funded by local businesses operating in towns, large and small, across America. The purpose of USCA is to promote local business through public relations, marketing and advertising.
The USCA was established to recognize the best of local businesses in their community. Our organization works exclusively with local business owners, trade groups, professional associations, chambers of commerce and other business advertising and marketing groups. Our mission is to be an advocate for small and medium size businesses and business entrepreneurs across America.
SOURCE: U.S. Commerce Association
CONTACT:
U.S. Commerce Association
Email: PublicRelations@us-ca.org
URL: http://www.us-ca.org
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FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Mitchell Reports Investigations LLC Receives 2009 Best of Greenville Award
U.S. Commerce Association’s Award Plaque Honors the Achievement
WASHINGTON D.C., June 8, 2009 -- Mitchell Reports Investigations, LLC has been selected for the 2009 Best of Greenville Award in the Detective Agencies category by the U.S. Commerce Association (USCA).
The USCA "Best of Local Business" Award Program recognizes outstanding local businesses throughout the country. Each year, the USCA identifies companies that they believe have achieved exceptional marketing success in their local community and business category. These are local companies that enhance the positive image of small business through service to their customers and community.
Various sources of information were gathered and analyzed to choose the winners in each category. The 2009 USCA Award Program focused on quality, not quantity. Winners are determined based on the information gathered both internally by the USCA and data provided by third parties.
About U.S. Commerce Association (USCA)
U.S. Commerce Association (USCA) is a Washington D.C. based organization funded by local businesses operating in towns, large and small, across America. The purpose of USCA is to promote local business through public relations, marketing and advertising.
The USCA was established to recognize the best of local businesses in their community. Our organization works exclusively with local business owners, trade groups, professional associations, chambers of commerce and other business advertising and marketing groups. Our mission is to be an advocate for small and medium size businesses and business entrepreneurs across America.
SOURCE: U.S. Commerce Association
CONTACT:
U.S. Commerce Association
Email: PublicRelations@us-ca.org
URL: http://www.us-ca.org
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Thursday, July 09, 2009
Taking a bite out of serial killers like Patrick Tracy Burris
Who really stopped this madness man? Patrick Tracy Burris, 41, might now wish he was a dog lover. In most criminal cases, 99 % of the time, a witness, neighbor, employee, or other sources provide a break in the case. They are solved by someone's "eyes and ears". Well this notorious thug was nabbed by the alert canine that woke Mike Valentine of Dallas, NC, Gaston County.
That's incredible!
With countless number of investigators from all over South Carolina, state, federal and local authorities the manhunt was very intense. Their efforts put the pressure on Burris to avoid Gaffney, SC and stopped him from killing once more. He took five lives in nine days, a terrible trajedy for Gaffney, SC, a sleepy little town.
As I profiled this serial killer the night before he died on Fox News Geraldo show, he operated in his “comfort zone”. Relentlessly working around the clock for more than a week, law enforcement from many agencies kept this man-hunt and ultimately avoiding a sixth killing.
While Patrick Tracy Burris was fearlessly “dogged” by law enforcement his life ended when a dog heard him. All the while cops diligently tracked down every reported tip and possible lead to nab this serial killer. They pressed ahead hoping for a major break.
And ironically it came on the ninth day.
In the wee hours of July 6, 2009, when Burris work up Mike Valentine’s dog, the neighbor living across the street from where his spree ended. The irony of this crime is Burris will not be credited for a clever crime spree that he evaded capture for years. His serial killing abruptly ended when a dog caught wind of him. The fact that his plan lacked living accommodations to evade police showed how living a life of crime does equate to intellect. Patrick Burris lived by the sword and died by it the final time he pulled his gun on mankind. Ironically his reign of terror was stopped by "men's best friend." I call that providence.
Despite all the citizens arming themselves to the hilt, the army of criminal investigators, Patrick Tracy Burris, (a men drawling over his national fame), was stopped by a dog. We should reward this hairy hero with a few drawling moments of his own - steak dinners are in order for this legendary crime stopper!
We won't need to arm our crime stopping pets, just give them a "treat" for their heroic captures.
Bill Mitchell
Private Investigator
Mitchell Reports Investigations, LLC
Greenville, SC 29607
www.mitchellreports.com
That's incredible!
With countless number of investigators from all over South Carolina, state, federal and local authorities the manhunt was very intense. Their efforts put the pressure on Burris to avoid Gaffney, SC and stopped him from killing once more. He took five lives in nine days, a terrible trajedy for Gaffney, SC, a sleepy little town.
As I profiled this serial killer the night before he died on Fox News Geraldo show, he operated in his “comfort zone”. Relentlessly working around the clock for more than a week, law enforcement from many agencies kept this man-hunt and ultimately avoiding a sixth killing.
While Patrick Tracy Burris was fearlessly “dogged” by law enforcement his life ended when a dog heard him. All the while cops diligently tracked down every reported tip and possible lead to nab this serial killer. They pressed ahead hoping for a major break.
And ironically it came on the ninth day.
In the wee hours of July 6, 2009, when Burris work up Mike Valentine’s dog, the neighbor living across the street from where his spree ended. The irony of this crime is Burris will not be credited for a clever crime spree that he evaded capture for years. His serial killing abruptly ended when a dog caught wind of him. The fact that his plan lacked living accommodations to evade police showed how living a life of crime does equate to intellect. Patrick Burris lived by the sword and died by it the final time he pulled his gun on mankind. Ironically his reign of terror was stopped by "men's best friend." I call that providence.
Despite all the citizens arming themselves to the hilt, the army of criminal investigators, Patrick Tracy Burris, (a men drawling over his national fame), was stopped by a dog. We should reward this hairy hero with a few drawling moments of his own - steak dinners are in order for this legendary crime stopper!
We won't need to arm our crime stopping pets, just give them a "treat" for their heroic captures.
Bill Mitchell
Private Investigator
Mitchell Reports Investigations, LLC
Greenville, SC 29607
www.mitchellreports.com
Steve McNair - Adultery - his fatal mistake!
Infidelity is always complicated, painful and someone gets wounded by it -- normally the deceived spouse. Jennifer Sanford and her family are experiencing the overwhelming turmoil Governor Mark Sanford’s adultery brings. They must survive his selfishness.
And then just this week it gets worse.
NFL legend Steve McNair added a person in his life that ended more than his marriage. It is a clear message to men - be faithful.
Public figures are keen examples of how their deceptive behavior stems from adultery. Once exposed, they look like “a deer in the headlights.” Always lying, denying and trying to find a plausible angle or cover story. Politicians, celebrities, sports figures, leaders, business executives, pastors, judges and news reporters all must pay a high price tag for their deception.
Many fail to survive the humiliation associated with their decision to cheat. In this age of adultery will we ever learn from their mistakes? Are we just too selfish?
The answer appears to be “yes”.
Adultery affects us all, especially those close to us, just look at the expression on their faces. Adultery is a powerful and destructive force. Steve McNair's family wishes he were alive to change the outcome. His life was tragically cut short by "another woman" and took a much unexpected consequence.
If only Steve had said "no".
If your spouse is saying “yes” to adultery, find out what to do right now. Don’t wait another minute; unravel the deceptive web like a pro before it’s too late. Learn the details of the affair, collect evidence, (just like Bill Mitchell does) and get closure quickly. Learn what millions of others have done to resolve their fears quickly. You can find the truth – quickly and with compromising your efforts.
Bill Mitchell, 7-Day Detective, celebrity private investigator, author, speaker and featured guest on Dr. Phil, Fox News, CBS, NBC, Larry Elder and many other media outlets.
Get your autographed copy today.
Learn more about Bill Mitchell's goods and services at http://www.7daydetective.com.
And then just this week it gets worse.
NFL legend Steve McNair added a person in his life that ended more than his marriage. It is a clear message to men - be faithful.
Public figures are keen examples of how their deceptive behavior stems from adultery. Once exposed, they look like “a deer in the headlights.” Always lying, denying and trying to find a plausible angle or cover story. Politicians, celebrities, sports figures, leaders, business executives, pastors, judges and news reporters all must pay a high price tag for their deception.
Many fail to survive the humiliation associated with their decision to cheat. In this age of adultery will we ever learn from their mistakes? Are we just too selfish?
The answer appears to be “yes”.
Adultery affects us all, especially those close to us, just look at the expression on their faces. Adultery is a powerful and destructive force. Steve McNair's family wishes he were alive to change the outcome. His life was tragically cut short by "another woman" and took a much unexpected consequence.
If only Steve had said "no".
If your spouse is saying “yes” to adultery, find out what to do right now. Don’t wait another minute; unravel the deceptive web like a pro before it’s too late. Learn the details of the affair, collect evidence, (just like Bill Mitchell does) and get closure quickly. Learn what millions of others have done to resolve their fears quickly. You can find the truth – quickly and with compromising your efforts.
Bill Mitchell, 7-Day Detective, celebrity private investigator, author, speaker and featured guest on Dr. Phil, Fox News, CBS, NBC, Larry Elder and many other media outlets.
Get your autographed copy today.
Learn more about Bill Mitchell's goods and services at http://www.7daydetective.com.
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Dr. Phil of Private Detectives
After proving more than two thousand cases of infidelity to aid the wounded spouse and children, nationally recognized private investigator Bill Mitchell agrees Governor Sanford will pay a price tag often out of one’s reach.
Considered the Dr. Phil of private detectives, Mitchell investigates the "7th Commandment" to include pastors who violate it. Known as the "7Day Detective" Mitchell authored a book seen on Dr. Phil as the key to unlocking an affair before it blooms into a destructive force. The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship ($14.97) has been considered a "gift" to those wanting help.
Bill Mitchell, a local Greenville resident and licensed private investigator works nationally for clients who suspect their spouse is cheating on them.
Considered the Dr. Phil of private detectives, Mitchell investigates the "7th Commandment" to include pastors who violate it. Known as the "7Day Detective" Mitchell authored a book seen on Dr. Phil as the key to unlocking an affair before it blooms into a destructive force. The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship ($14.97) has been considered a "gift" to those wanting help.
Bill Mitchell, a local Greenville resident and licensed private investigator works nationally for clients who suspect their spouse is cheating on them.
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
SC Governor Mark Sanford’s Affair
SC Governor Mark Sanford’s infidelity rocks South Carolinas today. Stunned by his emotional admission the consequences will unfold. Right now the chase to identify the paramour in Argentina begins.
What can we learn from his actions?
1. The affair started out as an internet relationship.
2. He began deceiving
3. He lied about his whereabouts.
4. He failed to recognize the consequential damage until it was too late.
5. He appeared remorseful but his future behavior will determine if he is genuine.
6. Time will help heal his family but scars will remain for life.
7. The damage to his reputation is irreversible.
8. He confessed publically but was he motivated by pressure from others? If not, this is good sign for his healing process.
9. Infidelity is the greatest destroyer of a politician’s reputation. This will be especially true of a conservative politician.
10. In this case, Governor Mark Sanford confession changes the playing field for his political career.
In every case of infidelity, deceit is necessary. Public leaders must be more responsible since they are servants. History proves adultery ends a leaders ability to lead. Just like an employee stealing from their company, adultery leaves many feeling shocked, disappointed and angry. It is an individual choice to forgive him, let's hope many do.
Now the fall-out!
What comes with this type of political scandal is a price tag - especially for those who supported his ideology and mission. This will certainly have an impact on the state’s conservative party. If the governor had any aspirations to run for the presidency, his opponents will bring his affair up as a stumbling block.
Again, infidelity creates a web that few escape.
It’s a sad state of affair!
Learn more now
What can we learn from his actions?
1. The affair started out as an internet relationship.
2. He began deceiving
3. He lied about his whereabouts.
4. He failed to recognize the consequential damage until it was too late.
5. He appeared remorseful but his future behavior will determine if he is genuine.
6. Time will help heal his family but scars will remain for life.
7. The damage to his reputation is irreversible.
8. He confessed publically but was he motivated by pressure from others? If not, this is good sign for his healing process.
9. Infidelity is the greatest destroyer of a politician’s reputation. This will be especially true of a conservative politician.
10. In this case, Governor Mark Sanford confession changes the playing field for his political career.
In every case of infidelity, deceit is necessary. Public leaders must be more responsible since they are servants. History proves adultery ends a leaders ability to lead. Just like an employee stealing from their company, adultery leaves many feeling shocked, disappointed and angry. It is an individual choice to forgive him, let's hope many do.
Now the fall-out!
What comes with this type of political scandal is a price tag - especially for those who supported his ideology and mission. This will certainly have an impact on the state’s conservative party. If the governor had any aspirations to run for the presidency, his opponents will bring his affair up as a stumbling block.
Again, infidelity creates a web that few escape.
It’s a sad state of affair!
Learn more now
Tuesday, June 09, 2009
Adultery - Solving Cases one at a time!
Eagle’s Nest Publications, LLC is extremely proud to announce the release of The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship, the latest generation of our market-leading investigative resources, embodying 37 years of experience and innovation.
The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship continues the evolution of Bill Mitchell’s, 7-Day Detective complete solution based system integrating highly successful techniques, valuable strategies, guidance and timely recommendations.
The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship meets the wide demands of evidence discovery and much sought after closure – today, and in the future.
The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship combines exemplary professionalism, intuitive design and a vast range of highly advanced methodology and recommendations, all of which place it at the forefront of other resources available. Whether you're an ambitious private investigator or discerning professional, The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship is sure to enhance your success.
The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship features a more straight-forward approach to handling the discovery campaign.
Take the opportunity now to order your version of The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship available in soft cover and four eBook versions.
We know you'll be glad you did.
7-Day Detective Team
The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship continues the evolution of Bill Mitchell’s, 7-Day Detective complete solution based system integrating highly successful techniques, valuable strategies, guidance and timely recommendations.
The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship meets the wide demands of evidence discovery and much sought after closure – today, and in the future.
The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship combines exemplary professionalism, intuitive design and a vast range of highly advanced methodology and recommendations, all of which place it at the forefront of other resources available. Whether you're an ambitious private investigator or discerning professional, The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship is sure to enhance your success.
The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship features a more straight-forward approach to handling the discovery campaign.
Take the opportunity now to order your version of The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship available in soft cover and four eBook versions.
We know you'll be glad you did.
7-Day Detective Team
Tuesday, February 03, 2009
7DayDetective: Tips to Recognize a Valentine's Cheater
No other holiday presents such a quagmire for cheating spouses like Valentine’s Day.
Valentine’s Day is the traditional day which lovers normally express affection, gifts, thoughts and endless romance. It’s a special day for married couples and significant others. But it ensnares the cheater.
Valentine’s Day is a very enlightening day. A cheating spouse walks a balance beam trying to keep poised while avoiding a fall to one side or the other. Any favoritism factors into this awkward quagmire. Vested spectators notice any hesitancy, limitation or faltering. Surely, a perfect performance is critical. Affection and romance are undoubtedly on display. Any indication of snake oil is consequential.
Unlike the rest of the year the days surrounding Valentine’s Day ensnare a cheating spouse like no other timeframe. Any blunder, oversight or slip up is costly. There are five vital signs detect a cheating heart. They are:
1. Initiating secret communications. The assortment includes covert messages, e-mails, text messages, e-cards, hang-ups, phone calls from closets or driveways, because cheaters must communicate by trickery.
2. Sharing tangible gifts: Purchases of flowers, candles, chocolates, cards, lingerie, virtual gifts, personalized gifts, little sweethearts, internet gifts, music, games, poems, treasured keepsakes, whimsical romance, adult gifts, CD’s, alcohol, or the like, can and do imply inclination and romantic expressions.
3. Change in behavior: Being preoccupied, distant, and anxious. They utilize an excuse or argument to escape. Expect to be denied access to informational sources like cell phones, PDA’s, computers, briefcases, wallets, purses, cameras, or vehicles. A fresh focus on their appearance and dress is the norm.
4. Finances: ATM cash or curious expenditures crop up. A trend of hidden, missing or destroyed charge or bank accounts, pay stubs, statements or records is customary.
5. Perplexed by time: Concocting an activity, strange meeting or agenda near Valentine’s Day. Disappearing acts, excuses, lateness, delays call for scrutiny. Cheating spouses wish they could be two places at once. Superheroes they are not! Instead, they just lie about their whereabouts.
These vital signs and others are less important than meeting legal precedents of infidelity. Once in hand, circumstances totally change. Never base your entire discovery effort on warning signs. Instead, shore up your position with evidence that will bring victory in court. This evidence is not only unwise, it is costly. The real question is distinguishing between fact and fiction. The more you understand cheaters, the easier detection becomes. Adultery is both predicable and discoverable. You must know how to play this complicated game in order to become empowered.
There’s no universally correct and incorrect answer to collect evidence. You need to know what solves your personal mêlée. Each assignment requires a specific plan, actions and facts worth pursuing. More importantly, investigating infidelity hinges on how one reacts to it. Too often, serious mistakes “tip off” cheaters further convoluting this calamity.Taking advantage of the unique opportunity Valentine’s Day presents is a winning strategy. I highly recommend stepping up your efforts this holiday. After all the more you know the better off you will be and quickly.
Bill Mitchell is a 35-year veteran private investigator and author of “The More You Know - Getting the Evidence and Support You Need to Investigate a Troubled Relationship.” For more information about the book and services, visit http://www.7daydetective.com/.
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