Fourteen Sure Fire Actions to avoid an affair this Valentine's Day

Adultery is a home wrecker. Who knows better than Bill Mitchell, Seven-Day Detective, who has investigated more than 2000 Bill Mitchell recently appeared on Dr. Phil in May and August 2005. Adultery can be avoided and here's how:

1. Promise your mate you will never join an internet "cheaters" service.
2. Put any positive thoughts of a "love triangle" in the company shredder
3. Guard your affection for your spouse or significant other. Don't give it away carelessly.
4. In 2006 share cards, chocolates, flowers, hotel suites and gifts with just ONE - your spouse.
5. Tell yourself you will get caught - no matter how selective a gene pool you left.
6. Understand that not every parent who cheated on their spouse is a wise or a good example to follow.
7. Convince yourself that car behind you is a private investigator placing a "tail" on you.
8. Look for reasons to keep your marriage alive - try a defibrillator if necessary.
9. Communicate to save your marriage. Be open and honest with your partner about your needs, desires and aspirations.
10. Be affectionate, accountable, understanding and honest this year ( of course with your spouse). Try signing up for a marriage seminar or retreat. Check with a local church for events in your area.
11. Read this aloud; "Affairs seem exciting and fulfilling for a moment but destructive to me, my family, friends, employer and future. It's not worth it and I'm too smart for that troubled way of living!"
12. Extramarital affairs are just too costly even for the wealthy. Do everyone around you a big favor, including your kids, use just one bed - the one at home - with your spouse.
13. Value your health. You can't risk the future over a fling. Cheaters often spread STD's.
14. Agree that a little "self-indulgence" will lead to an affair so listen to your conscience before it leads anywhere.


To schedule an interview with Bill Mitchell or to receive a review copy of The More You Know call 864-329-0530 visit him on the web at http://www.sevendaydetective.com/ or email him at billmitchellpi@bellsouth.net.

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