Leaving your spouse in the rear view mirror

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"When do you know it is time to pack your bags, fill the moving truck and
bolt?" asks private investigator Bill Mitchell author of The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship.

The decision to leave is never clearer than when a half-hearted confession is made. "When South Carolina Governor Mark Sanford uttered the description of the other woman as "soul mate" it was a clear message of intent. It would appear he had no plans to rebuild his marriage" says Mitchell.

"Confessions must be all or nothing. When the message contains ambiguity, it's time to plan an exit strategy." adds Mitchell. "This ugly state of affairs backs victims into a corner."

On one hand, the pressure to rebuild a troubled relationship is enormous more than ever when children, finances, and logistics factor into the equation. Choosing to make tracks should never be easier when the cheating spouse is unwilling to sever connections with the "other person."

Such is the case with Mark Sanford whose statements left that nagging doubt concerning future loyalty to his wife.

"Ms. Jenny Sanford, now author of Staying True, seems to me she made the right choice" says Mitchell.

"One observation is evident; Jenny Sanford reacted with a sense of purpose and rational clarity. And more injured spouses can learn a lesson from her resolve. She did what she believed was best when confronted by adultery. "adds Mitchell.

Unlike Jenny Sanford, whose finances enabled her pressing reaction to leave him, most women are often trapped economically and many instances have to "tough it out".

With so many high profile examples recently, the motivation to leave your spouse will, by and large, depend on how the offender reacts when exposed.

The responsibility to rebuild a broken heart rests upon the unfaithful partner.

They alone must make the effort to seek forgiveness, agree to boundaries, and turn a new leaf. "Otherwise, fill up the tank, pack your bags and never look back" concludes Mitchell.

Mitchell advises "Think of the consequences; think twice about cheating on your spouse."


Bill Mitchell, BA, LPI
Infidelity Expert, Author and Private Investigator
Mitchell Reports Investigations, LLC
2131 Woodruff Road, Suite 2100-299
Greenville, SC 29607
Phone: 864 329-0530
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http://www.sevendaydetective.com/
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About Bill Mitchell:

Infidelity expert Bill Mitchell is a veteran Private Investigator and
President of Mitchell Reports Investigations, LLC. He is author of The More
You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship, which reveals how to spot a cheater, how to garner proof, create favorable demands and leverage, win negotiations and get immediate closure - all in as little as one week. Bill Mitchell has caught more than two thousand domestic cases where proof demanded a verdict.

Frequently called on by the media to comment on infidelity issues in the news, Bill has been quoted in New York Daily News, the New York Post, the Chicago Tribune, Esquire, Ladies Home Journal On-line, Baltimore Sun, Divorce360.com and numerous other print and online media.

Bill has been a guest on Dr. Phil, Fox News, The Today Show, The Early Show,  and over 100 other radio and TV talk shows in the United States and abroad.

To interview infidelity expert Bill Mitchell, or have him speak to your
organization or conduct an infidelity seminar for your group, call
864-329-0530 or e-mail bill@7daydetective.com.